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21th july 2025
Parenting

Parenting is a complex and dynamic process that requires patience, understanding, and adaptability. Children grow and learn at an incredible pace, especially during their early years. They undergo significant physical, emotional, and cognitive changes that shape their personalities and abilities. As they rapidly develop their mental faculties and learn to express themselves in various ways, they begin to explore their surroundings. This curiosity can sometimes lead to messes or even risky situations.
In our enthusiasm to provide care and comfort, we often tend to overdo things without realizing it. Overparenting can have unintended consequences, such as hindering a child's motor skills, memory, organization, and time management abilities. By constantly intervening, we may inadvertently deprive them of valuable learning opportunities.
Simple tasks, like piercing a straw into a tetra pack, fixing velcro on shoes, stirring their own food, playing with messy materials, digging in the mud, or cleaning up after meals, may seem insignificant, but they play a crucial role in teaching children responsibility, respect, and basic life skills. Allowing them to perform these tasks independently gives them the chance to learn and grow.
By giving children the freedom to take ownership of these everyday tasks, we can help them develop into capable, independent individuals. This approach fosters a sense of ownership, self-reliance, and appreciation for the world around them, ultimately guiding them to become confident and capable in facing life's challenges. So, let's take a deep breath, step back, and allow our little ones to learn and grow—no matter how messy or time-consuming the process may be, it's worth it in the long run!
Sandeep Kaur Sandhu
Centre Head
GD Goenka La Petite - Malibu Town
